I phoned my mother today and she asked me "next year when you and Ray get married are you changing Alyssa's surname?"
I said of course ray is her daddy so she will have the same name as both parents.
she then said she wants me to keep Alyssa's surname but as a middlename and also to add current step dads name as a middle name i told her no as her name is long enough as it is and i know ray will say no.
when will my mother realise i am my own person and alyssa is my daughter.
sorry for the rant but it really annoyed me.